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August 27th 2013, 04:02 AM
45 days!
12 more days until my goal is met.
Scared because school is starting though. This summer's been MOSTLY urge-free. I'm hoping it's a good sign that I'm breaking the cycle though.
Do you ever get a little bit tired of life
Like you're not really happy but you don't wanna die
Like you're hanging by a thread but you gotta survive
'Cause you gotta survive
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August 27th 2013, 04:13 AM
One day. Only one day.
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August 27th 2013, 04:44 AM
You can do this, guys!
91 days for me. 
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August 27th 2013, 04:46 AM
six weeks and two days and WOW I hadn't been back here in a long, long while because I didn't need to be because I was GOOD for almost two years but fuck now I'm back and I need this because two years wasn't long enough apparently and I am so stressed right now because my parents think I'm a person that I'm NOT and it feels like I wear a different mask with every person and god six weeks two days six weeks two days it gets better I KNOW it does but it's not okay, not today at least.
old habits die hard. and some habits don't die at all. like, zombie bad habits.
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August 27th 2013, 05:28 AM
I have been self-harm free for TWO YEARS AS OF YESTERDAY. 
[/url] "For the first time
in a long time,
I can say that I wanna try.
I feel helpless for the most part,
but I'm learning to open my eyes.
And the sad truth of the matter is,
I'll never get over it,
but I'm gonna try
to get better and overcome each moment
in my own way"
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August 27th 2013, 04:15 PM
A few hours.....
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August 27th 2013, 05:45 PM
8 days...whoa.
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August 27th 2013, 11:25 PM
20 hours or so...
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August 28th 2013, 12:06 AM
Three months as of today! 
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August 28th 2013, 12:45 AM
17 weeks and 5 days
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August 28th 2013, 02:11 AM
16 days. Don't think I can last much longer. You got this Tay, stay strong! That goes for all of you, you're all awesome and deserve to beat this monster! 
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August 28th 2013, 02:16 AM
85 days.
12 weeks, 0 days.
2 months, 3 weeks, 3 days.
50 days to my record, one week to three months. Wow.
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August 28th 2013, 03:53 AM
1 hour and 40 minutes. Shoot me.
Good job to everyone else!! Stay strong <3
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August 28th 2013, 08:06 AM
Yesterday was 46 days, hoping today will make 47. Came so close to relapsing though. :/
Do you ever get a little bit tired of life
Like you're not really happy but you don't wanna die
Like you're hanging by a thread but you gotta survive
'Cause you gotta survive
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August 28th 2013, 08:06 AM
Two days. I don't know why the fuck I care anymore. 
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
The axe forgets, but the tree remembers
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August 28th 2013, 02:55 PM
2 days and won't last much longer..... I just saw my family fall to pieces... 
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August 28th 2013, 04:24 PM
86 days.
12 weeks, 1 days.
2 months, 3 weeks, 4 days.
I almost messed it up last night :/ I've been so triggered lately. I dot know how I'm doing it.
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August 28th 2013, 05:36 PM
17 days, stay strong everyone.
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Just a few of my favorite Marilyn Monroe quotes
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August 28th 2013, 06:01 PM
9 days, hmm
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August 28th 2013, 08:17 PM
3 days.
well done everyone, you're all doing great!
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August 28th 2013, 10:54 PM
One hundred and twenty seven days.
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August 29th 2013, 12:16 AM
Five days and going strong!
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August 29th 2013, 01:24 AM
Around two or three days now.
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August 29th 2013, 01:36 AM
17 weeks and 6 days
"Just open your eyes and see that life is beautiful..." ~Sixx:A.M.
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August 29th 2013, 01:54 AM
1 day.....
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August 29th 2013, 02:41 AM
25 days. or 3 weeks 4 days.
From day one I talked about getting out
But not forgetting about
How all my worst fears are letting out
He said, "Why put a new address on the same old loneliness?"
When breathing just passes the time
Until we all just get old and die
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August 29th 2013, 04:10 AM
Well, it's a little past eleven here and at midnight it'll be three days. So close enough.
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
The axe forgets, but the tree remembers
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August 29th 2013, 04:10 AM
5 minutes. I don't even care anymore
When I'm sad I think, "I got a jar of dirt, I got a jar of dirt!"
You can't change fate, but you can change your attitude towards it.
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August 29th 2013, 08:12 AM
10 days, nope...cant do this anymore :{
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August 29th 2013, 10:34 AM
4 days.
don't give in! You're all strong!
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3 days.... 3...
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2 days.....
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August 30th 2013, 12:38 AM
48 days! Beat another tough urge.
Do you ever get a little bit tired of life
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August 30th 2013, 01:11 AM
18 weeks. Yay!
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August 30th 2013, 04:32 AM
3 weeks 5 days.
Proud of you Dez, you can do this. <3
From day one I talked about getting out
But not forgetting about
How all my worst fears are letting out
He said, "Why put a new address on the same old loneliness?"
When breathing just passes the time
Until we all just get old and die
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August 30th 2013, 05:14 AM
A half hour.
Keep going, guys! Every time I click on this thread, I'm watching great people make great accomplishments <3. You can do it!
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
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August 30th 2013, 05:30 AM
18 days! Feeling a bit better than usual, should be able to keep this up for a while. Keep going Cassie, you got this! You too Cathy! I know you guys are strong, and you've got this. Everyone here is! Congrats on everyone's accomplishments! Be proud of how far you have come, and keep going! Alright guys, keep it up! Stay strong. Xx
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Just a few of my favorite Marilyn Monroe quotes
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"Everybody is always tugging at you. They'd all like a sort of chunck out of you. I don't think they realize it, but it's like 'grrr do this, grr do that...' But you do want to stay intact and on two feet."
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August 30th 2013, 03:03 PM
88 days.
12 weeks, 3 days.
2 months, 3 weeks, 6 days.
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August 30th 2013, 03:32 PM
19 days, wow.
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