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July 3rd 2013, 11:25 PM
Four days.
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July 4th 2013, 01:31 AM
Twenty-two days. 
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July 4th 2013, 04:52 PM
Today will be 10 weeks
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July 4th 2013, 04:55 PM
Twenty-three days. c:
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July 4th 2013, 05:01 PM
Still going strong with a year, even if I get urges.
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July 4th 2013, 05:03 PM
6 weeks 4 days. 
From day one I talked about getting out
But not forgetting about
How all my worst fears are letting out
He said, "Why put a new address on the same old loneliness?"
When breathing just passes the time
Until we all just get old and die
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July 4th 2013, 05:28 PM
31 days.
4 weeks, 3 days.
1 month, 1 day.
134 more and that's my record.
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July 5th 2013, 05:26 AM
Today, the 5th of July, marks five months free of SH. 
There is no beauty without some strangeness.
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July 5th 2013, 06:15 AM
2 months tomorrow.
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Just a few of my favorite Marilyn Monroe quotes
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"Everybody is always tugging at you. They'd all like a sort of chunck out of you. I don't think they realize it, but it's like 'grrr do this, grr do that...' But you do want to stay intact and on two feet."
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"I was never used to being happy, so that wasn't something I took for granted. You see, I was brought up differently from the average American child because the average American child is brought up expecting to be happy."
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July 5th 2013, 01:30 PM
An hour.  I was doing pretty well too. Fucking idiot.
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July 5th 2013, 02:58 PM
In one hour, it will be two days.
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July 5th 2013, 05:52 PM
6 weeks 5 days. Or 47 days.
From day one I talked about getting out
But not forgetting about
How all my worst fears are letting out
He said, "Why put a new address on the same old loneliness?"
When breathing just passes the time
Until we all just get old and die
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July 5th 2013, 07:59 PM
Gareth, you're nt an idiot. You can do this <3
32 days.
4 weeks, 4 days.
1 month, 2 days.
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July 5th 2013, 08:14 PM
Two days... 
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July 5th 2013, 08:53 PM
I've been sh free for a month, but i will admit i broke it a few days ago, but i hope that i will be free of it for much longer now!
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July 5th 2013, 09:07 PM
1 week and going alright 
Stay strong!!! 
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July 5th 2013, 09:27 PM
Six days..
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July 5th 2013, 10:28 PM
10 weeks and a day
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July 6th 2013, 05:11 PM
6 weeks 6 days.
From day one I talked about getting out
But not forgetting about
How all my worst fears are letting out
He said, "Why put a new address on the same old loneliness?"
When breathing just passes the time
Until we all just get old and die
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July 6th 2013, 08:53 PM
A day, apparently. 
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July 6th 2013, 09:17 PM
a few hours. 
the other one is 35 days and will be 36 in 6 hours. It's more than my previous record of 20 days but it doesn't feel as good because I'm not entirely free.
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July 6th 2013, 09:30 PM
This is day 40.
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July 7th 2013, 02:57 PM
I stopped counting for a while, but holy crap I just realized today will be the 15th day if (and when!) I go without it O__O I've got a good feeling about this time.
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July 7th 2013, 06:08 PM
34 days.
4 weeks, 6 days.
1 month, 4 days.
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July 7th 2013, 06:10 PM
4 days.....
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July 7th 2013, 07:45 PM
4 months and 1 day. my goal is to make it 8 months this time.
Some say the world will end in fire,
Some say in ice.
From what I've tasted of desire
I hold with those who favor fire.
But if it had to perish twice,
I think I know enough of hate
To say that for destruction ice
Is also great
And would suffice. Cut free since March 6th 2013 Purge free since March 8th 2013
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July 7th 2013, 08:20 PM
1 month.
all i want is a place to call my own and mend the hearts of everyone who feels alone, woah, you know to keep your hopes up high and your head down low.
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July 7th 2013, 08:21 PM
Eight days.
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July 7th 2013, 08:30 PM
Five hours?
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July 7th 2013, 11:23 PM
You can do this Gareth! You got this, I promise.
I don't think I'll be slipping up tonight, so I'm gonna say that today's is now officially day 15.
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July 8th 2013, 12:20 AM
As of now, twenty-four days.
"i don't care your intentions. I just want you to know my self-hatred never took me where I wanted to go. At the end of the day...I can pick at the pain but I can't cut it away."
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July 8th 2013, 01:32 AM
7 weeks. or 49 days. That was my goal
From day one I talked about getting out
But not forgetting about
How all my worst fears are letting out
He said, "Why put a new address on the same old loneliness?"
When breathing just passes the time
Until we all just get old and die
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July 8th 2013, 02:13 AM
Seventy-Four days.
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July 8th 2013, 03:13 AM
10 weeks and 3 days
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July 8th 2013, 06:37 AM
2 hours. I'm so weak. I used to be strong but no I fucked it up and had to cut tonight. Fuck.
When I'm sad I think, "I got a jar of dirt, I got a jar of dirt!"
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July 8th 2013, 04:21 PM
Oh, look, a day. Not by choice, but it still counts.
Thanks, Sarah! And Ash, hang in there!
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July 8th 2013, 08:45 PM
42 (the meaning of life, the universe, and everything) days. 
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July 8th 2013, 09:07 PM
Eighteen days.
With all I've been feeling lately how is this possible LOL.
Do you ever get a little bit tired of life
Like you're not really happy but you don't wanna die
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July 8th 2013, 09:10 PM
5 days.
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July 8th 2013, 09:58 PM
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Eighteen days.
With all I've been feeling lately how is this possible LOL.
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I've been wondering the same thing for myself.
You can do this!
Twenty-five days. Almost cut last night and then this morning but I didn't.
"i don't care your intentions. I just want you to know my self-hatred never took me where I wanted to go. At the end of the day...I can pick at the pain but I can't cut it away."
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