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December 25th 2017, 10:40 AM
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If I can I'm going to go back to sleep. If I cannot I am going to open a Christmas package I received.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 -
December 26th 2017, 01:57 PM
I'm cuddling with my cat.
I might go back to sleep.
I might watch a few YouTube videos
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December 28th 2017, 12:28 PM
Was playing with the puppy
Might read a bit
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December 29th 2017, 04:15 PM
Going to be doing some chores
Waiting patiently for my package and telling myself I have to wait until after I open it. Hoping the urge will be gone by than and if not I'll figure out another reason to put it off
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December 30th 2017, 10:54 PM
Distracting myself with teenhelp.
Reminding myself that I have plans tonight and cannot miss them due to cutting and needing medical help.
Doing some laundry as well.
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January 3rd 2018, 10:49 PM
I am going to log off of TH and go read. Might go pick up my library books but my anxiety is high and not certain I should be driving.
Maybe I'll attempt to distract myself with phone calls.
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January 4th 2018, 04:15 PM
I’ve been coloring, reading and reorganizing (helps with anxiety).
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
The axe forgets, but the tree remembers
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 -
January 4th 2018, 10:18 PM
Might go take a nap as I've got a slight headache and napping can be a good distraction
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January 6th 2018, 08:12 PM
I went shopping early this morning as I was struggling a bit and needed a distraction
I will be reading/attempting to get my current book finished up. I might start a new book as well or work on some of the graphic novels I picked up at the library.
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January 7th 2018, 04:20 AM
I've been crocheting non stop.
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January 8th 2018, 09:20 AM
Reaching out for help.
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January 8th 2018, 11:53 PM
Honestly cutting hasn't really crossed my mind lately. So think by managing my emotions and knowing I have a goal to reach if I want to work in the psych ward.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 -
January 9th 2018, 07:40 AM
Went for a run and then talked to a friend.
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January 9th 2018, 03:49 PM
Went for a drive. Got online. Might go read.
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January 13th 2018, 02:55 PM
Reading and then sleeping since I've been sick.
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
The axe forgets, but the tree remembers
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January 13th 2018, 03:26 PM
Cuddling with my cat
Sleeping
Reading
Preparing for the interview
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January 14th 2018, 06:01 PM
Studying for the upcoming week
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January 18th 2018, 09:02 PM
I have been sleeping to avoid the anxious thoughts that were making me want to self harm.
I think I might read after I do a few things around TH
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 -
January 18th 2018, 09:06 PM
I decided to calm myself down before I go to the area where it's easiest to self harm (since the area isn't avoidable) by eating lunch and doing other things first.
Do you ever get a little bit tired of life
Like you're not really happy but you don't wanna die
Like you're hanging by a thread but you gotta survive
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 -
January 23rd 2018, 01:46 PM
I've been reading and going to class.
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
The axe forgets, but the tree remembers
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January 24th 2018, 09:16 PM
Reading
Distracting myself with a few online activities
I also am planning on doing a little something tonight so I am giving myself something to look forward too. Reminding myself that if I self harm I will likely miss out on the activity.
Lastly, reminding myself that I am trying to get a job and if I self harm I could miss an opportunity. This allows me to keep putting it off for a longer period of time.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 -
January 24th 2018, 09:52 PM
Talked with my girlfriend about my urges
Listened to loud music (Linkin Park)
And grabbed one of my new books to read when feeling tempted
My mind works the night shift
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January 25th 2018, 04:00 PM
I am going to be doing some things with my boyfriend today
My oldest niece *might* be dropping by as well
I am currently distracting myself with TH
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January 26th 2018, 02:49 PM
Yesterday I cleaned my fish tanks and wrote a paper for class. I think today I want to read and talk to my therapist.
If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first
The axe forgets, but the tree remembers
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January 26th 2018, 07:56 PM
Listening to music.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 -
January 29th 2018, 03:04 PM
I meditated. Tried it for the first time and am extremly surprised on how much it helps.
It's ok to give in to an urge or make a mistake. You are only human and we all have our flaws. We all have our weak moments and we all make mistakes. Thats what makes us human.
Thats what makes us unique and beautiful
Courage isn't always a loud roar. Sometimes it is a quiet whisper at the end of a day saying: Tomorrow I will try it again!
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 -
January 29th 2018, 05:05 PM
I have been watching youtube videos and I have been doing some things around th. Need a distraction because my anxiety is bad and my mind is racing a bit.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 -
January 30th 2018, 04:32 AM
Music and my best friends
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 -
January 31st 2018, 04:56 AM
Listening to music
Watching youtube videos
Online window(book) shopping
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February 1st 2018, 08:12 PM
Watching a live video from Owlcrate.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 -
February 2nd 2018, 01:48 AM
Today I went to the gym, had tea, and spent time with my family.
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February 2nd 2018, 06:31 AM
I read all night. I was able to finish my book, too. It's the first book that I have read in a short amount of time.
I am also contemplating rearranging my bookshelves a bit.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 -
February 2nd 2018, 08:06 PM
Watching YouTube Videos.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 -
February 3rd 2018, 12:45 AM
I've used a lot of methods over the years, but the ones that have worked the most are:
listening to music - I mostly listen to CCM or Christian rock when I'm down because it's very uplifting
prayer as I've always been strong in my faith, except for the times when I turned to SH instead of my faith
reading one book series in particular - I believe I'm on the tenth time reading it, maybe more
writing poetry - this had been one of the absolute best things to help me because while it doesn't distract me from the urges, it helps me work through whatever is causing them
I smoked cigarettes from the time I was fourteen until this past December (I switched to vaping because it's not as unhealthy / hazardous) and when I was having a really hard time, I would force myself to wait until after I had smoked a cigarette. The time it took to finish the cigarette would give me time to calm down. It wasn't a healthy coping method, but at the time, I was already smoking, and to me, it was the lesser of the two evils since it did help. I am in no way recommending smoking instead of SH; it was just something that helped me when I was younger. Both habits are unhealthy and harmful, but I will admit that it helped me quit SH, and as I said, I've since quit smoking cigarettes altogether
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February 3rd 2018, 08:24 PM
Reminding myself of the things I would miss out on if I ended up self harming
Watching some videos
Responding to threads and facebook posts
Figuring out if I want to watch a movie later tonight
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February 8th 2018, 02:40 AM
I went window shopping
I drove around town as well
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 -
February 10th 2018, 11:11 AM
Being more mindful and practicing self-care.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 -
February 11th 2018, 06:09 PM
Practicing Self Care and part of that involves doing a small something with my boyfriend as we have both been struggling a lot and need time together.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 -
February 12th 2018, 05:00 AM
working out to burn off the energy
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 -
February 12th 2018, 05:44 AM
Going to go to bed since the thoughts are strong and sleeping will keep me safe and it might help me to feel better.
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