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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - November 4th 2017, 11:03 PM

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I am going to be reading soon.
I also think I might end up watching a television show
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - November 7th 2017, 11:12 AM

Watching television
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - November 9th 2017, 05:14 AM

I am pretty sure I am going to go ahead and try and sleep. I have a book I might start as well. It's a verse book so I might be able to get a chunk of it read before falling asleep.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - November 10th 2017, 12:43 PM

Today my brother and I might go out to breakfast and see a movie and I have to do some cleaning for some of my animals so that should keep me busy.


If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - November 11th 2017, 04:56 PM

I have a birthday party to go to and if I cut... I might need medical attention and would miss the party.

Sometimes commitments, especially ones I've been looking forward, to help prevent me from self harming because if I need to seek help... I'd miss out on the commitment.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - November 12th 2017, 06:15 PM

I was reorganizing my bookshelves. Hoping to have that done by the beginning of the week sometime. It's probably more than halfway done too.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - November 12th 2017, 06:49 PM

Knitting!


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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - November 13th 2017, 05:36 AM

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Knitting!
I've heard knitting can be a great coping skill! Knitting anything in particular?

I ended up reading about 150 pages of my book. I am hoping to finish it tomorrow but we shall see. Now that I am relaxed enough I am probably going to sleep.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - November 13th 2017, 01:06 PM

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I've heard knitting can be a great coping skill! Knitting anything in particular?

I ended up reading about 150 pages of my book. I am hoping to finish it tomorrow but we shall see. Now that I am relaxed enough I am probably going to sleep.
A scarf :3

And right now I'm browsing the site to cope.


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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - November 15th 2017, 07:12 AM

I finished my book and am going to start the next one. I probably won't get far though since it's about 800-900 pages.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - November 16th 2017, 06:59 AM

Cuddling with my cat
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - November 16th 2017, 10:28 PM

Reading
Planning some activities for the holiday season
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - November 18th 2017, 01:31 PM

Today I’m going to get out of the house by volunteering and I am hoping to start my new book as well.


If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first


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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - November 18th 2017, 04:55 PM

I am cuddling with my cat and my boyfriend. Probably going to read soon
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - November 19th 2017, 09:52 PM

Today I'm going to go for a walk.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - November 20th 2017, 05:10 AM

Cuddling with my cat
Just finished stranger things season 2
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - November 20th 2017, 07:34 AM

Honestly it hasn't even crossed my mind at all lately. So I guess I am beating it by not feeling depressed or the need for it.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - November 23rd 2017, 09:47 AM

Distracting myself with my phone and reminding myself that is 5 and a half hours I get to purchase books
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - November 24th 2017, 01:06 PM

I am planning on reading. Tomorrow I am going to be volunteering somewhere so that might help. I have to take some things to the post office today and I am also hoping to talk to my therapist.


If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first


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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - November 27th 2017, 10:23 AM

Contemplating reading but also starting to feel a bit tired so I might try and sleep?
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - November 29th 2017, 06:06 AM

I read
I talked to someone
I watched some YouTube videos
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - November 29th 2017, 11:26 PM

I went for a drive which helped calm my nerves. I might pick up my book soon. Would like to finish it but I still have a large chunk of it left so, at the very least, I would like to get 50%-60% read!
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - December 4th 2017, 02:04 PM

I think that I might take a nice warm shower
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - December 5th 2017, 07:51 PM

I am going to read, if I can find my book!
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - December 7th 2017, 04:17 AM

Going to go read for a bit. Want to try and get through another 5-10 chapters in hopes that I can finish my book by Friday or Saturday
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - December 7th 2017, 04:32 AM

I called my mom and talked about what was bothering me.


Do you ever get a little bit tired of life
Like you're not really happy but you don't wanna die
Like you're hanging by a thread but you gotta survive
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - December 7th 2017, 01:51 PM

Talking to my boyfriend about what's going on
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - December 12th 2017, 12:49 AM

I had a session with my therapist and I'm going to watch a Christmas movie.


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Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
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Give me back my girlhood, it was mine first


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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - December 12th 2017, 07:27 AM

I went for a run up and did laps while blaring music.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - December 15th 2017, 05:58 AM

Listened to music relatively loudly
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Question Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - December 15th 2017, 12:02 PM

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cutting for me, along with a release, is also a fascination with blood and scars. so if I wish I had that on my arm, I'll draw on myself or just lightly scratch myself so it leaves small marks, but isn't painful.
the drawing on myself helps a lot, as it will distract me for a good 30 minutes.
art helps too if there's a specific emotion or reason behind why I want to cut.
I do the exact same thing...why is it that I can relate so much towards you
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - December 17th 2017, 09:17 PM

Distracting myself with TH
Might read until I have to leave for book club which will be in about an hour and a half or so.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - December 18th 2017, 08:18 PM

Reading and cuddling with my cat
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - December 19th 2017, 03:29 PM

Might make myself breakfast and read.
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - December 20th 2017, 02:46 PM

Had an early breakfast.
Going to do some things on TH until I have to take my boyfriend to his parents
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - December 21st 2017, 01:00 PM

Might read a bit
Reminding myself that I have reasons I can't cut...
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - December 22nd 2017, 02:18 PM

Going to take anxiety medication
Might try and go back to sleep as well
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - December 22nd 2017, 02:33 PM

I’ve been reading and I’m going to have a session with my therapist and bake some cookies today.


If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - December 23rd 2017, 04:15 PM

Took a shower
Once I comb my hair I'll probably read a bit
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Re: How are you beating self harm? Vol 2 - December 24th 2017, 08:30 AM

Going to try and sleep
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