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Spanking
The title of this blog can stir quite a bit of controversy, it seems. I have been seeking input with my homelife situation where my Mom spanks me once or twice a week in order to change my behavior. She does this with her open hand palm with both my pants and underwear down. At 16, I have wondered if I am too old for this form of discipline, but spanking has been in our family tradition. Also, my mom's church promotes spanking as a discipline. I've grown up with spanking, and for me, it helps "clean the slate" with a new beginning once I have been spanked for my behavior.
While a spanking stings and often brings me to tears, my Mom's method is to usually spank me long but not too hard. A couple of forum replies have considered that my Mom and/or myself is getting something sexual out of the spankings. I've been naive on this issue, it seems, and did not think of that connection. I don't see that in my case. I do know that I get a full erection from spanking, I guess due to my squirming around and the pressure of my genitals on her lap. When it's over, she has me stand before her with my shaft sticking out and has me listen to her kind words before I can pull my underwear and pants up. She says that my embarrassment is part of the discipline.
When my Mom spanks, it's usually a surprise, as she doesn't let me know until right before it happens. Then, once she sits down, pulls me over, slides my pants and underwear down, and bends me over her lap, I know what I'm in for. All the while she's doing this, she's telling me what behavior brought it on. Once I feel that first slap, I instinctively tense up my butt muscles and know that a steady cadence of slaps will follow. She slaps at a medium tempo--not too fast and not too slow--first one cheek and then the other--giving each one its due. Within the first few slaps, I can usually feel my cock getting hard, but it is not until she's through when I stand up that I can see and fully notice my erection sticking out.
From reading some of the feedback to my forum entry, after giving it some thought, I must admit that there is excitement connected with getting a spanking. I don't know that it is sexual in nature, but there is something about the unknown shock of being spanked--getting pulled over, having your pants and underwear pulled down, then having your private area that is one's butt slapped many times, and then finally standing up with your erect cock and balls in full view. So, on the one hand, it is very unpleasant, but at the same time, it is sort of a thrilling ride, as you are at the mercy of your loving parent trying to change your behavior.
Well, that's some observations that I have about spanking from my personal experience. I hope to learn more here on this forum with input from others.
While a spanking stings and often brings me to tears, my Mom's method is to usually spank me long but not too hard. A couple of forum replies have considered that my Mom and/or myself is getting something sexual out of the spankings. I've been naive on this issue, it seems, and did not think of that connection. I don't see that in my case. I do know that I get a full erection from spanking, I guess due to my squirming around and the pressure of my genitals on her lap. When it's over, she has me stand before her with my shaft sticking out and has me listen to her kind words before I can pull my underwear and pants up. She says that my embarrassment is part of the discipline.
When my Mom spanks, it's usually a surprise, as she doesn't let me know until right before it happens. Then, once she sits down, pulls me over, slides my pants and underwear down, and bends me over her lap, I know what I'm in for. All the while she's doing this, she's telling me what behavior brought it on. Once I feel that first slap, I instinctively tense up my butt muscles and know that a steady cadence of slaps will follow. She slaps at a medium tempo--not too fast and not too slow--first one cheek and then the other--giving each one its due. Within the first few slaps, I can usually feel my cock getting hard, but it is not until she's through when I stand up that I can see and fully notice my erection sticking out.
From reading some of the feedback to my forum entry, after giving it some thought, I must admit that there is excitement connected with getting a spanking. I don't know that it is sexual in nature, but there is something about the unknown shock of being spanked--getting pulled over, having your pants and underwear pulled down, then having your private area that is one's butt slapped many times, and then finally standing up with your erect cock and balls in full view. So, on the one hand, it is very unpleasant, but at the same time, it is sort of a thrilling ride, as you are at the mercy of your loving parent trying to change your behavior.
Well, that's some observations that I have about spanking from my personal experience. I hope to learn more here on this forum with input from others.
