trying to accept :D

so a few days ago my best friend came out to me that she is a lesbian now, she is finally at peace with this after going through a year of depression and self harm and eating disorders. she is still my best friend in the world, and i would never love her less because of it but it has begun to influence my thinking. i am a baptist christian and in those circles well, let's say my friend couldn't come out to my church unless she wanted to be kicked out. so i'm in a rut and i guess i just needed to vent, :P we cannot tell anyone, well at least not anyone close to either of our family's, and while i am still very straight i feel for her delema. (sorry my spelling is awful) anyway if anyone has advice that would be greatly appreciated.